An internationally recognised etiquette expert has outlined the unmistakable signs of 'bogan' behaviour to watch out for during the summer season. The advice covers everything from foul language and questionable dress sense to inconsiderate driving habits.
Defining the Modern 'Bogan'
Jo Hayes, a world-renowned etiquette consultant from Queensland, clarified that being a 'bogan' is not about socioeconomic background but about conduct. She is the founder of EtiquetteExpert.org.
"Traditional definitions of a 'bogan' would usually describe such people as coming from a working class background. But I always like to stress that 'Bogan' is not a money thing. It's a manners thing," Hayes told the Daily Mail.
She emphasised that her mission is to teach good manners and proper etiquette, which she says is about upholding personal dignity for oneself and others, rather than being 'posh'.
Top Summer Social Faux Pas
According to Hayes, one of the most classic indicators is the use of foul language in public spaces. She stated that such vulgarity, particularly prolific swearing, is a definitive mark of bogan behaviour and shows a disregard for those around you.
When it comes to summer barbecues and gatherings, she warned against several specific pitfalls. Arriving at a family event with a carton of beer and loudly announcing an intention to get drunk was highlighted as a prime example.
Dress Code Decorum
Hayes pointed out significant etiquette mistakes related to summer attire. While swimwear is perfect for the beach, wearing a bikini or revealing denim shorts to a family barbecue with grandparents and young cousins present is inappropriate.
"It makes others feel uncomfortable. Do the right thing and cover up," she advised. She suggested using public figures like the Princess of Wales as role models for dignified style and opting for breathable, natural fabrics like cotton and linen in the heat.
Table Manners & Hosting Tips
While acknowledging the charmingly casual nature of an Aussie backyard BBQ, Hayes said there are still lines not to cross. Eating a sausage sizzle with your hands is expected, but gnawing on a steak without cutlery is not.
For hosts, she recommended simple upgrades to avoid a bogan presentation. Serving snacks from a bowl or platter instead of their original packaging and using a tablecloth can significantly elevate the event. She also advised against playing personal audio on loudspeaker in public spaces like beaches.
Beyond the Barbecue: Other Bogan Behaviours
Hayes identified several other hallmark behaviours. Hooning—dangerous and loud driving—was labelled as supremely inconsiderate and illegal. Similarly, going barefoot in shops or service stations was deemed unhygienic and 'gross'.
She also singled out tacky bumper stickers featuring degrading imagery as vulgar and a sign of poor taste. The overarching theme, according to the expert, is a lack of consideration for the comfort and dignity of other people in shared spaces.
Ultimately, Hayes concluded that summer socialising should be relaxed and enjoyable, but that observing general civility and respect for others is what separates thoughtful behaviour from the bogan variety.
