Kevin Costner's Cautious Approach to New Romance with Kelly Noonan Gores
Following the finalisation of his divorce from Christine Baumgartner in 2024, actor Kevin Costner has embarked on a new relationship with writer Kelly Noonan Gores, which began in August. However, insiders reveal that the 71-year-old Hollywood star is adopting a notably cautious stance in this romance, likely influenced by his recent high-profile split.
A Grounding Presence and Private Lifestyle
Sources close to the couple describe Gores, aged 46, as a "grounding" force for Costner, best known for his role in Yellowstone. The pair reportedly enjoy a low-key and private dynamic, often spending time together at Costner's Santa Barbara estate when their schedules align. Their preferred activities include intimate dinners at home, leisurely walks on the beach, and quiet evenings in, reflecting a desire for simplicity away from the public eye.
An insider emphasised that Costner is "not looking for a serious relationship or marriage any time soon," characterising the connection as deliberately "private and casual." This approach marks a significant shift from his previous marriage, suggesting a more guarded personal life post-divorce.
Backgrounds and Past Relationships
Kelly Noonan Gores was previously married to billionaire Alec Gores from 2016 until 2024, and they share a six-year-old daughter, Riley Grace Gores. Meanwhile, Kevin Costner's marriage to Christine Baumgartner lasted from 2004 until their separation in April 2023, with divorce proceedings filed shortly thereafter. The former couple have three children together: Cayden, 18, Hayes, 16, and Grace, 15.
Costner also has older children from previous relationships, including Annie, 41, Lily, 39, and Joe, 37, with ex-wife Cindy Silva, as well as Liam, 30, with former girlfriend Bridget Rooney. Reports indicate that Baumgartner has since moved on with Costner's former friend, Josh O’Connor, a situation that has reportedly left the actor feeling "resentful." A source noted, "Part of him wishes they could have made it work. It stings that she remarried, but he tries not to focus on it."
Insights into Their Connection
According to insiders, Gores aligns well with Costner's preferences and lifestyle. She is described as "exactly his type," with shared interests in outdoor activities, sports such as surfing, and long walks with dogs. Her status as a mother to young children is also appealing to Costner, who reportedly adores kids. One source highlighted that Gores is perceived as "chill," which provides a calming influence during what has been a challenging period for the actor.
Another insider shared, "Kevin is dating and happy again after a very dark time in his life. He has tried to keep it very hush hush because he doesn't want this to go off the rails." This sentiment underscores his cautious approach, prioritising stability and privacy in his personal affairs.
Career Challenges and Future Projects
On the professional front, Kevin Costner has faced significant setbacks, particularly with the underperformance of his self-funded film, Horizon: An American Saga. Originally planned as a four-movie series, the project has stalled following its disappointing box office reception. A source commented, "Of course, he was disappointed that Horizon wasn’t more successful. He put his all into it," but added that Costner "still isn’t giving up" on the endeavour.
Currently, Costner is promoting The Gray House, an upcoming Civil War spy epic series produced in collaboration with Morgan Freeman, set for release on February 26. The show focuses on unsung women in Confederate territory who establish an underground spy network. Insiders suggest that Costner is in a phase of reflection regarding his career, with one source stating, "Kevin has spent the last year trying to figure out what’s next for him and he’s embracing the journey." Another revealed that he is telling his inner circle that 2026 is his "redemption year," indicating a hopeful outlook despite recent professional hurdles.
