Rumer Willis Hits Back at Parenting Critics Over Breastfeeding
Rumer Willis has launched a fierce defence against critics who have targeted her parenting choices, particularly her decision to continue breastfeeding her daughter Louetta, who turns three this month. The actress, 37, shared a touching clip on Instagram showing her nursing Louetta, accompanied by a pointed message to those who judge her.
A Defiant Response to Online Criticism
In the video posted on Sunday, Rumer cradles her nursing daughter with the caption: 'When someone starts judging my parenting'. The clip then cuts to a viral TikTok featuring a woman using a tongue-in-cheek whiteboard diagram to instruct others on how to stay out of her business. Unafraid to stand up for herself, the daughter of Hollywood icons Bruce Willis and Demi Moore captioned the video with a bold 'Sorry not sorry'.
Rumer welcomed her first child on April 18, 2023, with her ex-boyfriend Derek Richard Thomas, and has frequently shared proud snaps documenting her breastfeeding journey. However, this openness has made her a target for judgement, prompting this latest public rebuttal.
Mixed Reactions from Social Media Followers
The post sparked a heated debate in the comments section. Many users insisted that Louetta was too old to still be breastfed, with remarks such as:
- '3 is way too old to keep breastfed. Sorry honey!!!'
- 'If they're old enough to ask for it...they shouldn't have this lol too far.'
- 'It's more for you at this point. Not sorry.'
Conversely, several supporters came to Rumer's defence, sharing their own experiences:
- 'I nursed my daughter until she was three; no regrets.'
- 'Nursing is so normal & beautiful, it should be seen everywhere, and embraced.'
- 'I fully support this! My last daughter breastfed until she was almost 4!'
Accusations of Contradiction and Rage-Baiting
Despite the supportive voices, the majority of commenters argued that by publicly posting videos of her breastfeeding, Rumer was inviting judgement. They accused her of being 'contradictory' and even 'rage-baiting' by sharing a private moment while stating she didn't care for others' opinions.
Comments included:
- 'No one is judging your parenting, just posting breast feeding.....which you've now made public and everyone's business.'
- 'This seems like rage bait... seriously, why?'
- 'Your daughter will watch this one day as an adult and won’t be happy.'
A History of Defending Her Parenting Choices
This is not the first time Rumer has faced backlash over sharing intimate snaps of breastfeeding. In August 2024, she proudly bared her chest to celebrate World Breastfeeding Week, posting a gallery of photos nursing Louetta from birth. She declared that breastfeeding 'has been one of the most joyful and bonding experiences of my life'.
At the time, she clapped back at detractors, telling People magazine: 'I'm feeding my kid. It's not sexual unless you're making it that way.' She also lamented the constant policing of her Instagram posts, recalling criticism over a photo showing Louetta's butt: 'You're making it sexual, but it's a crack in her butt.'
Navigating Single Motherhood
Rumer welcomed her daughter with ex-boyfriend Derek in 2023, revealing their split in August the following year. During an Instagram AMA, she said: 'I am single momming it and co-parenting. I'm so grateful for Lou.' In November 2025, she shared the challenges of being a single mother, noting she 'had a good cry in the woods' over doing everything alone.
She insists she is the sole provider for Louetta, with details about co-parenting or financial support from Derek remaining unclear. In February, she hit back at comments suggesting she benefits financially from her famous parents, stating on Instagram: 'I work 4 different jobs to provide for my daughter. I am the sole provider for her. I don't live off a trust fund or get money from my parents.'
Rumer's unwavering stance highlights her commitment to parenting on her own terms, despite facing persistent scrutiny from online critics.
