Why Valentine's and Galentine's Day Matter in Today's World
It is time to celebrate Valentine's Day, or perhaps Galentine's Day, because the world genuinely requires a bit more love and kindness at this moment. As Jess Cartner-Morley highlighted in her recent Filter edit, this occasion can be embraced as a "daft festival of joy in the bleakest moment of the calendar." Valentine's Day serves as a poignant reminder during unromantic February to cherish those you hold dear, a sentiment that is sorely needed globally.
Thoughtful Gift Ideas for Lasting Memories
When it comes to Valentine's Day gifts, there is a clear distinction between the throwaway and the meaningful. Our guide deliberately avoids unimaginative items in favour of thoughtful, creative ideas designed to endure well beyond February 14th. While flowers are included—because who does not adore them—we recommend longer-lasting alternatives like stained-glass versions or subscription services instead of a single bouquet.
Gone are the days of flammable teddy bears and high-sugar supermarket chocolates. Instead, consider presents such as a candle that melts into massage oil, a mini photo book, or a two-cup flask perfect for couple hikes. These more considered gifts aim to bring partners closer together without necessitating a fortune. For instance, we found an M&S fragrance under £10 that mimics a Jo Malone scent and an affordable table tennis set to unleash your competitive spirit.
Celebrating Friendship with Galentine's Day
Sometimes, the focus shifts to celebrating best friends. Galentine's Day, observed on February 13th, might seem like a modern invention—thanks to the US sitcom Parks and Recreation—but its feminist spirit is worth embracing. We have handpicked a selection of gifts for female friends, from a mystery football shirt to a joy-sparking cafetière, ensuring they feel truly appreciated.
Although Valentine's and Galentine's Day often target women with their highly feminised aesthetics, we have not forgotten about men. Lovely gifts for them include David Gandy trunks, a personalised beer stein, and Le Labo beard oil. Have you ever received a standout Valentine's Day gift? Share your experiences by replying to this newsletter. Regardless of who you are, happy celebrations on the 13th and 14th.
This Week's Top Picks and Editor's Choice
In addition to gift guides, this week features various recommendations: the best flower delivery for every budget, women's lingerie for all moods, a review of the Dyson PencilVac Fluffycones, low-alcohol drink favourites, home treadmills, men's coats for winter, soup makers for healthy meals, and top supermarket sauerkraut.
As an editor's pick, Peter Bevan notes that "much like our bodies, our wardrobes need to acclimatise to winter." His guide to the best men's boots, from chelseas to hikers, emphasises their role as essential armour for wet, cold February. We also cover the best boots for women, including slouchy and cowboy styles.
Pancake Preparations and Screen-Free Resolutions
With Shrove Tuesday approaching on February 17th, it is an ideal time to assess your frying pan. Dale Berning Sawa tested the best Pfas-free options by cooking pancakes and other sticky foods, from ceramic non-stick to cast iron, ensuring you avoid a messy outcome.
Furthermore, if you have resolved to reduce screen time this year, we invite you to share your strategies. What behaviours, gadgets, or mind tricks have helped you spend less time online? What screen-free hobbies have aided in getting off your phone? Reply to this newsletter or email thefilter@theguardian.com to contribute your insights.



