An internationally recognised etiquette expert has outlined the unmistakable signs of 'bogan' behaviour that can spoil summer gatherings, stressing that the label is about manners, not money.
Defining the Modern 'Bogan'
Jo Hayes, a world-renowned etiquette consultant from Queensland and founder of EtiquetteExpert.org, explained to the Daily Mail that the traditional link between 'bogan' and working-class background is outdated. She insists it is purely a matter of conduct. "'Bogan' is not a money thing. It's a manners thing. It's a behaviour thing, not a budget thing," Hayes stated. She noted she knows many people on low incomes who are not bogans, and conversely, many 'cashed-up bogans' with wealth but poor taste.
Her mission, she says, is to teach good manners and proper etiquette, which she frames as upholding human dignity for oneself and others, rather than being 'fancy' or 'posh'.
Top Five Bogan Behaviours to Avoid
With the summer season in full swing, Hayes pinpointed several key areas where etiquette often lapses, turning casual events into displays of poor taste.
1. Foul Language and Loud Antics
According to Hayes, swearing in public is a classic hallmark of bogan behaviour. "The more foul, the more bogan," she said bluntly. She also highlighted turning up to a barbecue with a carton of beer and announcing an intention to get "hammered" as a prime example. At social gatherings, she advises keeping phones on silent and out of sight to avoid digital noise pollution, and never playing personal audio on loudspeaker in public spaces.
2. Inappropriate Summer Attire
Hayes pointed to unspoken dress code rules, warning that what is suitable for the beach often isn't for a family event. "Coming to a summer BBQ at aunty Susan's... wearing a breasts-bulging-out bikini and butt-showing denim shorts? Hmmm, that's bogan, darling," she remarked. For women, she recommends avoiding denim shorts that are overly revealing and opting for light, breathable fabrics like cotton and linen to stay cool and polished.
3. Hooning and Car Habits
Dangerous and noisy driving behaviour is labelled as supremely bogan. Hayes condemned 'hooning'—such as high-speed driving, burnouts, and loud exhaust backfires—as not only illegal but deeply inconsiderate to neighbours and pedestrians. She also singled out tacky bumper stickers, particularly those featuring degrading images of women, as vulgar and in poor taste.
4. Basic Hygiene and Presentation Fails
Going barefoot in shops or service stations is a significant faux pas. "It's unhygienic and, really, just gross," Hayes said, recommending wearing thongs as a minimum. When hosting, she advises against serving snacks straight from their packaging. "Simply serving the snacks on a plate, platter or bowl elevates the food in a major way," she explained.
5. Poor Table and Dining Etiquette
While the charm of a backyard BBQ is its casual vibe, basic civility still applies. Hayes said eating a sausage sizzle with hands is fine, but steak should be eaten with cutlery. "No one wants to see you gnawing at your meat like a caveman," she cautioned. Using a napkin and avoiding burping are simple steps to maintain decorum. She also suggested serving drinks from a jug or punch bowl rather than plastic bottles to elevate the occasion.
The Essence of a Tasteful Summer
Jo Hayes concluded that summer entertaining should be relaxed and enjoyable, but underscored that observing general civility and respect for others is paramount. By avoiding these common bogan behaviours, hosts and guests can ensure gatherings are pleasant for everyone, focusing on good company and a respectful atmosphere rather than extravagant displays.
