Sue and Dave Cook, a dedicated couple from St Helens, have been recognised for their extraordinary contributions to foster care, receiving Members of the Order of the British Empire (MBE) at an investiture ceremony held at St James's Palace on Thursday morning. Over the past two decades, they have opened their home to an impressive 62 children, and now they are issuing a heartfelt plea for more individuals to consider fostering, emphasising that the need is "so big" and "desperate."
A Royal Honour and a Personal Mission
During the ceremony, the Cooks met with the Princess Royal, who they described as "very knowledgeable" about their fostering work. Dave Cook, aged 57, admitted that the honour "hadn't quite sunk in yet," reflecting the couple's humble beginnings. They were accompanied by three of their foster children, highlighting that the day was "as much their day as it is ours," showcasing the deep bonds formed through their care.
From a Simple Start to a Lifelong Commitment
The couple's journey into fostering began unexpectedly twenty years ago. Sue Cook, now 60, recalled how they cared for a friend's child temporarily and found themselves reluctant to return the little one. This experience sparked their decision to become foster parents themselves. Since then, they have welcomed children for stays ranging from mere hours to long-term placements, with some still part of their family today.
An Urgent Call to Action
In light of a critical shortage of foster carers, the Cooks are urging potential foster parents to take the "initial step." Dave Cook stressed, "There are so few foster carers and the need is so big. Anybody who would even think about doing it needs to pick up the phone and have a go, have at least a chat to see if it's for them or not." He added that many people hesitate after considering it, but emphasised the importance of making that first phone call to explore the possibility.
Describing fostering as "an amazing job" and "an amazing role," the couple hopes their story will inspire others to overcome doubts and contribute to a system in dire need of support. Their message is clear: fostering can be a rewarding experience that makes a significant difference in children's lives.
Other Honourees at the Ceremony
The investiture also recognised other notable figures, including Barry O'Brien, former chairman of the England and Wales Cricket Board (ECB), who was made an OBE for his services to law, cricket, and charity. O'Brien expressed surprise at the award and commented on the current state of English and Welsh cricket, noting, "It's in a bad state I'm afraid," adding a broader context to the day's events.
As the Cooks continue their fostering journey, their recognition serves as a powerful reminder of the impact that dedicated individuals can have on vulnerable children, and their call to action underscores the ongoing crisis in foster care provision across the UK.
