Why I, a Muslim Convert, Still Cherish the Easter Holiday Season
As a stand-up comic who embraced Islam in 2021, I often face curious questions about my conversion. I might joke that, as a dark-skinned Black woman, life needed more challenges—more oppression, please! But beyond the humour, let me address some common misconceptions upfront.
No, I did not suddenly become homophobic; I remain a strong, vocal supporter of the LGBT community. No, I do not view women as second-class citizens. Women's rights are enshrined in Islam, and any deviations are cultural, not religious. And no, I won't get angry if you insult Islam—the rules for handling provocation are clear and, frankly, useful for everyone. My patience, or sabr, has grown immensely, transforming how I deal with stress.
Bridging Faiths: From Christianity to Islam
Raised in a Christian household, most of my family still identifies as Christian, and I happily wish them "Merry Christmas." Contrary to stereotypes, I don't join other Muslims in knocking over Christmas trees or spitting on children waiting for Father Christmas. People need to stop confusing Muslims with The Grinch. Jesus, known as Isa in Islam, is a revered prophet, and his teachings are studied widely. The overlap between Christianity and Islam is far greater than many realise.
While I no longer celebrate Christmas—I'm relieved to avoid its commercial frenzy, especially amid the cost-of-living crisis—my favourite holiday remains Easter. Before fellow Muslims object, let me explain why this time holds such a special place in my heart.
The Solitary Nature of My Islamic Journey
Islam is a solitary experience for me, as a Caribbean Black woman, making me a minority within a minority. In my area, most Muslims are of South Asian descent, with fewer Black Muslims, who tend to be from African backgrounds. Cultural celebrations differ, and recently, Eid felt like a birthday—forced and impersonal, akin to a restaurant's obligatory "Happy Birthday" song that quickly fades as others return to their meals. The world keeps turning, with schools open for non-Muslim pupils, leaving my child to catch up on missed work.
Why Easter Stands Out as a National Celebration
Easter weekend is different. It's a rare long weekend, sandwiched between two bank holidays, as if given a massive hug. The whole country slows down, and people seem kinder. Supermarkets buzz with shoppers buying delicious food, free from the pressure of gift-giving. The weather improves, evenings grow lighter, and even children, hyper from chocolate eggs, don't bother you.
This season also revives my love for traditional TV over streaming. I skip the soap specials now, but I recall the excitement of guessing which character would be killed off or resurrected—very on brand for EastEnders. The best part? The musicals. My old headmistress introduced me to Jesus Christ Superstar, which I adore, despite glossing over Judas Iscariot being the only main Black character. It airs every Easter, adding to the magic.
With Eid just passed, Passover beginning, and Easter here, the stars align. If we can't find happiness this weekend, there truly is no hope. It's time to chill out and savour the chocolate!
