For parents already grappling with screen time limits and device-free dinner tables, the rapid emergence of artificial intelligence introduces a fresh wave of digital anxieties. While there is legitimate cause for concern, experts urge caregivers not to panic but to proactively engage with this transformative technology to better protect and guide their children.
The Growing Digital Divide Between Generations
"There is a palpable fear of the unknown because AI is advancing at a breathtaking pace, potentially moving faster than childhood itself," observes Jake Moore, global cybersecurity advisor at software firm ESET. This acceleration creates a significant knowledge gap, with many parents lacking familiarity with AI while their children grow up immersed in it.
Moore warns this dynamic can push parents "further and further away from new technology," emphasising that "we don't want a world of technophobe parents. We want parents to understand what their kids are going through."
Balancing Alertness with Practical Engagement
Yasmin London, child digital safety and wellbeing lead at digital safeguarding company Qoria, offers a measured perspective: "Parents do need to be alert, but not alarmed by AI. They need to develop their own AI literacy regarding what their children might be exposed to."
With governmental AI regulation struggling to keep pace with technological developments, parental awareness becomes increasingly crucial for managing potential risks in the digital landscape.
Four Critical AI Concerns for Modern Parents
1. The Rise of AI Companions
London explains how major technology companies are shifting focus from the 'attention economy' to the 'attachment economy,' with AI companions like those on platforms such as Nomi allowing children to "create any avatar they want and use that avatar as a friend."
"Vulnerable children experiencing loneliness, self-esteem issues, or difficulties with real-world relationships might find themselves drawn to these chatbots because they constantly offer positive reinforcement, mirroring and validation," she continues. "While initially comforting, this can further isolate young people and raise concerns about their critical thinking abilities and relationship skills."
2. The Deepfake Dilemma
While parents may be newly aware of platforms like Grok, children have been using AI image generators for some time, "whether for amusement or more malicious purposes, sometimes creating sexualised content that could lead them down problematic legal paths," notes London.
"The intentions aren't always harmful, but the consequences for victims can be severe when deepfakes place them in embarrassing or defamatory situations," she adds, highlighting the serious implications of this technology.
3. Unrealistic Beauty Standards Amplified
"AI disproportionately impacts young girls," London emphasises. "Many follow Instagram accounts featuring AI avatars that appear hyper-realistic, leading girls to compare themselves against these impossible beauty standards." This constant exposure can significantly "impact their worldview and overall wellbeing."
4. Misinformation and Radicalisation Risks
For boys, particular concerns exist around being "sucked into manosphere cultures, radicalisation pathways, and incel communities." London explains that "AI can certainly be used to scale harm in these ways, as well as to disseminate false information."
She warns that "if a young person repeatedly searches for such content, the AI will learn their preferences and continue sharing whatever information is fed into it, regardless of accuracy."
Practical Strategies for Protecting Children
Starting with Familiarisation
Moore recommends a straightforward first step: "Download every app your children are using, whether you personally like them or not. Begin with platforms like Snapchat." While this might feel like awkwardly trying to connect with youth culture, "if you adapt and communicate with your kids on the apps they use, they will actually have more respect for you."
"Examining app settings together allows you to offer privacy and security tips," he adds. "Having the app yourself makes these conversations easier because you're speaking their language and addressing relevant concerns."
The ABC Model for Digital Safety
London advocates applying what she calls the 'ABC model' for managing children's AI exposure:
A stands for managing access: "For children using AI, first ensure it's age-appropriate. Young children certainly shouldn't be using chatbots, ChatGPT, or companion apps if we can avoid it."
B represents boundaries: "This challenges all parents, but it involves implementing and consistently maintaining rules around technology use, whether involving AI, gaming, or messaging."
C signifies communication: "Having safe, trusted adults they can speak to remains the number one protective factor in the online world."
Embracing AI Together
Moore encourages parents to approach AI with openness: "Your children will likely work in jobs incorporating AI, so by learning about it now, you'll be better equipped to understand their challenges or help improve their efficiency when they need support."
London cautions against demonising new technology, noting that outright bans often push children away from parents rather than from the technology itself. "We know humans thrive when we're active, enjoying nature, and sharing genuine laughter with friends," she reflects. "It's ultimately about achieving balance."
By adopting these strategies, parents can bridge the digital generation gap, fostering safer, more informed relationships with their children as they navigate the complexities of artificial intelligence together.
