Fetlife Murder Plot Trial: Husband and Au Pair's Bizarre Double Killing Scheme
Fetlife Murder Plot Trial: Husband and Au Pair's Bizarre Scheme

Fetlife Murder Plot Trial Exposes Bizarre Double Killing Scheme

A Virginia courtroom has become the stage for a chilling narrative that reads like a Hollywood thriller, as prosecutors detail an alleged murder plot hatched through a fetish website that culminated in two violent deaths. The case centres on 40-year-old Brendan Banfield, a former IRS agent now facing trial for the murders of his wife Christine Banfield and 39-year-old Joseph Ryan in their Herndon home on February 24, 2023.

The Sinister Instructions

Inside Fairfax County Circuit Court, jurors heard the disturbing messages allegedly sent to Joseph Ryan through the BDSM and fetish fantasy platform Fetlife. "She will be asleep in bed. Go straight upstairs. Cut off her clothing. Tie her up. Rape her," read the instructions described by prosecutor Jenna Sands as "simple and fun." Most chillingly, prosecutors claim Ryan was told not to stop "even if she looked terrified, even if she was calling for help."

A Story That Unravelled

Initially, Banfield and the couple's 25-year-old Brazilian au pair Juliana Peres Magalhães told police they discovered Ryan stabbing Christine to death and shot him in response. However, prosecutors assert this story quickly collapsed under scrutiny. Instead, they allege Banfield and Magalhães—who were having an affair—masterminded an elaborate scheme to kill Christine, using Ryan as an unwitting patsy lured through the fetish website.

The Star Witness's Dramatic Turn

The trial's most explosive development came when Magalhães, initially charged with murder alongside Banfield in October 2023, agreed to cooperate with prosecutors a year later. In October 2024, she accepted a plea deal, pleading guilty to involuntary manslaughter in exchange for testifying against her former lover. Prosecutors will recommend she receives only time served.

Over three days of testimony last week, Magalhães described how she began living with the Banfields in their $1 million home in October 2021. She testified that the affair began the following summer, with Banfield soon discussing killing his wife and moving to Brazil to start anew. According to her testimony, divorce wasn't an option because Banfield feared losing money and custody of their then-four-year-old daughter.

The Alleged Plot Unfolds

Magalhães told jurors how she and Banfield created a fake Fetlife account posing as Christine, communicating with multiple potential candidates before selecting Ryan. On the fateful morning in February 2023, she claimed she waited outside the home with the Banfields' daughter, calling Banfield—who was allegedly waiting at a nearby McDonald's—when Ryan arrived.

After Banfield returned, Magalhães testified they entered the home and went upstairs to the bedroom, where they shot Ryan dead. She then allegedly watched as Banfield repeatedly stabbed his wife before they called 911, claiming they had shot an intruder attacking Christine.

Credibility Under Scrutiny

Legal experts note the case presents a classic "he said, she said" dilemma. Former federal prosecutor Neama Rahmani, president and co-founder of West Coast Trial Lawyers, told the Daily Mail: "Having an affair with the nanny is a tale as old as time but the alleged setup, the planning, plotting and luring is crazy."

During cross-examination, defense attorneys challenged Magalhães's credibility, highlighting how she stood by her original story for a year after her arrest. Jurors were shown jailhouse letters where she expressed willingness to take blame for her lover, with her stance changing only after concerns about lifetime imprisonment and pressure from her mother.

The Digital Evidence Dilemma

Rahmani identifies two critical elements that could determine the trial's outcome: Magalhães's credibility as a witness and digital evidence proving who controlled the Fetlife account. Magalhães testified that she and Banfield used Christine's laptop to create a fake email address and Fetlife account, sending messages when Christine was home to cover their tracks.

"It all hinges on proving who sent the messages to Ryan on Fetlife," Rahmani explained. "If it was Brendan and Juliana and not Christine, where's the evidence? It was her laptop, her email... we need to see the digital evidence, some sort of clear digital footprint connecting Banfield to it. That is going to be everything."

Circumstantial Evidence Presented

Prosecutors have presented compelling circumstantial evidence, including testimony that Banfield purchased a gun just before the alleged murders and installed special triple-glazed, noise-reducing windows in the family home—potentially to muffle sounds of gunshots and screams.

Perhaps most damningly, jurors heard how Banfield moved Magalhães into the marital bed just months after Christine's death. Fairfax County Sgt. Kenner Fortner testified that during an October 2023 visit, he saw "red, lingerie-style clothing items" and Magalhães's belongings in the primary closet, with photos of the Banfields replaced by a framed picture of Magalhães and Banfield beside the bed.

The Defense's Position

Banfield has pleaded not guilty to all charges, including four counts of aggravated murder, use of a firearm in commission of a felony, child abuse, and felony child cruelty related to his daughter being home during the incident. His defense maintains he was not behind the Fetlife account, suggesting in opening statements they would present digital evidence proving Christine controlled it.

A Case That Could Hang in the Balance

With two of the four people involved dead, only Banfield and Magalhães remain to tell conflicting versions of events. Rahmani notes the prosecution faces challenges: "You don't want to rely on a cooperating witness's testimony alone, on someone who has been given a potentially no-time deal. She is an alleged co-conspirator to murder and she could be given no time so I think that plays into the defense's argument that she is lying to save herself."

As the trial continues, jurors must weigh Magalhães's dramatic testimony against the lack of definitive digital evidence directly linking Banfield to the Fetlife account. The outcome may hinge on whether prosecutors can provide the corroborating evidence needed to support their star witness's story in this bizarre and tragic case.