Unethical, strange, and exploitative are just some of the words used to critique a reality show I consider to be the best thing on TV. Those who have slated the programme are clearly missing the point, and crucially, they're overlooking the lived experiences of those who have actually taken part in it.
The Premise of 'Virgin Island'
The show I'm talking about is Channel 4's 'Virgin Island,' which returns for a second season tomorrow night (April 27). The premise sees 12 virgins, all aged in their twenties and thirties, as they are sent to a sun-soaked island retreat to learn all about intimacy. The very hands-on course is led by pioneering sexologists Dr. Danielle Harel and Celeste Hirschman, who aim to build up the confidence of their island recruits and teach them to understand and harness the power of their own sexuality via group workshops and one-to-one therapy sessions.
The Role of Sex Surrogates
They are supported by a team of trained sex surrogates who allow the cast to see their naked bodies, engage in sexual touch with them, and even, if they deem it appropriate, go all the way. In Season 1, only one of the cast members lost their virginity to their sex surrogate, so this part of the process isn't happening willy-nilly, pardon the pun.
Why It's More Than Just Titillating TV
Of course, with its plentiful nudity and frank approach to sex and intimacy, it is no wonder British audiences were left squirming in their seats. The first season even made it onto 'Gogglebox' for a comedic dissecting from the cast. But away from the inevitable awkward laughter viewers may emit as they watch the show, the wonders it does for not only its cast but those watching are undeniable.
Celebrating Natural Bodies
Reality TV today is jam-packed full of people bearing a typically unattainable type of beauty, often the result of expensive trips to a cosmetic surgeon or a tweakment here and there. 'Virgin Island,' however, spotlights natural and normal bodies of every size, celebrating their beauty and reinforcing the message that you are enough as you are, no matter what.
Promoting Healthy Sexuality
Not only that, but it also spotlights what real, awkward, and consensual sex looks like, the importance of which can't be underestimated amid the rise of manosphere influencers spouting their sexist ideals.
Life-Changing Impact on Cast
Most importantly, the cast themselves have spoken out about the life-changing impact the show has had on them. In a reunion special aired earlier this week, three stars of Season 1 gathered together to discuss their lives after the programme.
Cast Testimonials
Accountant Dave, who was the only cast member to lose his virginity in the first season, explained: 'I was desperate before the show and I was getting in any relationship I could before the show. I've learnt to not force it with someone I'm not happy with. I have had relationships with amazing people and I never would have had them without the show.' Meanwhile, his co-star Jason admitted he was a brand new person, remarking: 'My life now, I am more confident. I can hold a conversation. When the time does come to do the deed, I won't be scared.'
Looking Ahead to Season 2
Tomorrow night, a whole new cast will begin their journey on 'Virgin Island.' I just hope this time around, viewers at home will stop mistaking it for titillating TV. 'Virgin Island' Season 2 begins tomorrow night (April 27) at 9pm on Channel 4.
