Choosing an outfit for a first date is a common source of stress, with many tempted to reach for the latest catwalk crazes. However, fashion and dating experts warn that some of this season's most prominent trends could be a recipe for discomfort and even disaster when meeting someone new.
Trends That Threaten Comfort and Connection
Speaking to the Daily Mail, stylists and relationship coaches highlighted several specific trends that are best left in the wardrobe for an initial rendezvous. The list includes oversized barrel jeans, which can look cartoonish, and overly sloppy sweatpants that signal a lack of effort.
Vancouver-based stylist and designer Heather Jude emphasised the importance of matching your outfit to the date's activity. "Nothing is worse than wearing a cute outfit and realizing it doesn't match the activity," she said, joking, "think Emily in Paris truffle hunting in platform heels." Her specific advice is to avoid strapless tops that constantly need adjusting, annoying fringe details, and low-rise pants for anything active.
Atlanta personal stylist Solita C. Roberts strongly advises against sheer 'naked dresses' or tops, despite their red-carpet popularity. "First dates are about connection and getting to know someone beyond the physical attraction," Roberts explained. She warned that wearing sheer clothing leads to preoccupation with adjustments, preventing you from being present, and can make both parties feel awkward in a casual setting, potentially shortening the date.
Expert Advice for a Confident First Impression
Julie Nguyen, a dating coach for the Hily app, echoed the sentiment on low-rise jeans, noting they "can be uncomfortable, require constant adjusting, and make someone feel self-conscious instead of relaxed." She also cautioned against full athleisure wear, stating leggings or sweatpants can seem too casual and imply a lack of effort unless the date is specifically sporty.
Nguyen warned against trend-heavy looks that don't suit the venue. "A statement fur jacket won't work at a dive bar, just like wearing a thrifted look filled with ruffle details you love won't work at a formal restaurant," she said. "Overly hyper-fashion pieces can throw off the vibe of the date if it doesn't fit the dress code." She also suggested ditching bold, Euphoria-inspired glitter makeup for a more natural look on a casual coffee date.
How to Show Your Personality with Style
Instead of blindly following fads, the experts recommend using clothing to express your authentic self comfortably. Heather Jude's key principle is: "Don't follow trends for the sake of wanting to look a certain way if it doesn't align with who you are."
She suggests picking one focal point if you love prints but are nervous. For example, try a fun printed pant paired with a solid top. She recommends items like the 12th Tribe Midland leopard print pant for a subtle yet personality-showing look. You can still nod to trends through accessories, like a sparkly Kate Spade beaded bag, without committing to an overwhelming head-to-toe look.
The unanimous conclusion from the professionals is that on a first date, ease, comfort, and appropriateness are far more important than being fashion-forward. An outfit that allows you to be present and confident will always make a better impression than an uncomfortable, trend-led costume.
