Brian Hoyer, the veteran NFL quarterback and long-time friend of Tom Brady, has issued a heartfelt public plea for assistance following the tragic and unexpected death of his sister-in-law, Carissa. The 36-year-old mother passed away suddenly on February 13th, leaving behind her husband Brett and their four daughters: Josie (10), Lainey (9), Ellie (7), and Hattie (2).
A Family's Unimaginable Loss
In an emotional online announcement, Hoyer described the devastating impact of Carissa's passing. 'It is with a heavy heart that I write this,' Hoyer wrote. 'On February 13th, my little brother lost his wife Carissa suddenly and unexpectedly. She leaves behind him and their four little girls. In an instant, he became a widowed father to four daughters under 12.'
Community Support Through GoFundMe
The Hoyer family has established a GoFundMe campaign with a $100,000 goal to provide financial relief during this difficult period. As of Wednesday evening, the fund had already raised $56,000 through generous donations from supporters across the country.
The campaign page explains: 'Beyond immediate costs, this fund will help ease daily pressures as Brett steps into the role of a single parent. Our hope is simple. We want Brett to be able to focus on loving his girls, grieving together, and beginning the long process of healing without the constant weight of financial stress.'
Hoyer's Personal Appeal
Hoyer, best known as Tom Brady's backup with the New England Patriots during his NFL career, made a direct appeal to his followers and the wider community. 'If you can find it in your heart to help us help him and his girls through this unimaginable season, we would be forever grateful. We can't take away their pain, but together we can help carry the weight.'
The former Michigan State star emphasized that every contribution matters: 'Your support can help ease their burden during this painful time. Please consider donating or sharing to show you care. Every bit helps.'
Family Organizes Support Efforts
Brian Hoyer and his brother Matthew have been coordinating the fundraising efforts to benefit Brett and his children. Matthew provided an update on Wednesday after the campaign surpassed the $50,000 milestone.
'While nothing can replace Cari's presence, your generosity is helping lift a burden and provide stability as Brett steps into this new reality of raising four young daughters without their Mother,' Matthew wrote in a heartfelt message. 'We cannot thank you enough for standing with our family. Please continue to keep Brett and the girls in your prayers as they navigate the days ahead.'
Football Community Responds
Hoyer's NFL connections and his relationship with legendary quarterback Tom Brady have brought additional attention to the family's plight. Throughout his professional career, which included stints with the Cleveland Browns, Chicago Bears, and several other teams, Hoyer built strong relationships within the football community that are now rallying to support his family during this challenging time.
The fundraising initiative represents more than just financial assistance—it's a testament to community solidarity in the face of profound personal tragedy. As the Hoyer family navigates their grief, the outpouring of support provides a crucial lifeline during their period of adjustment to life without Carissa.
