Comedian Alan Carr has publicly announced his ambitious intention to acquire a castle in Scotland, marking a significant personal change as he prepares to leave the home he once shared with his former husband, Paul Drayton. The 49-year-old entertainer, who separated from Drayton in 2022 after a thirteen-year relationship that included three years of marriage, described this move as part of what he humorously refers to as a midlife crisis.
A Fresh Start in Scottish Splendour
In a candid interview, Carr expressed his desire for a dramatic lifestyle shift, stating, I’m getting myself a castle. I fancy a change - I'm selling up and going up there. For real. My money, my decision. He emphasised that he remains in the property where he lived with his ex, noting, We’re divorced now and it's been four years. I'm single now, ready to mingle. I just need to move. The inspiration for this grand plan stems from his recent victory on the television show Celebrity Traitors, which seems to have ignited a passion for stately living.
Viewing Castles and Filming a New Project
Carr is set to travel to Scotland imminently to view several potential properties, admitting, It's so exciting, but I haven't even seen them yet and I'm going up to Scotland tomorrow to have a look. They’ve got me viewing a few. This search will be documented as part of his new television venture, Castle Man, where cameras will follow his journey to find a suitable home. Executive producer Ben Wicks commented on the project, saying, What an incredible project: Alan Carr looking to buy a castle befitting his status as comedy royalty and a national treasure, and soon finding himself responsible for the very real, right royal pain of making it all work. He added that they are delighted to collaborate with Disney, which has considerable experience with castle-related content.
Reflections on the Split and Personal Dynamics
While Carr and Drayton have maintained that their separation was mutual and amicable, never disclosing specific reasons, Drayton offered some insights into Carr's personality last year. He suggested that Carr possesses a ruthless streak and can be a very different person away from the cameras. Drayton explained, The person I would see at home was very different to the Alan you see on TV - and he does have a ruthless streak. He will only take so much and then he will say, 'You're taking the p*ss, I don't want anything more to do with you'. Despite these observations, Drayton clarified that he was not criticising his ex-husband, with whom he remains on good terms.
Midlife Crisis with a Unique Twist
Carr contrasted his approach to a midlife crisis with more conventional choices, joking, Some men when they have a midlife crisis buy a Lamborghini or grow a ponytail, but me - I want my very own castle. This light-hearted remark underscores his determination to embark on this new chapter independently. The move symbolises not only a physical relocation but also an emotional transition, as he seeks to create a fresh environment post-divorce.
As Carr prepares for his castle-hunting expedition, fans and viewers alike will be able to follow his progress through the upcoming Castle Man series, promising a blend of humour and real-life challenges in the pursuit of a dream home.
