Scarlett Moffatt has revealed a heartbreaking admission one of her closest friends made during her fertility struggles. The Gogglebox star, who welcomed son Jude Xavier Dobinson in June 2023 at 35 weeks, described him as her 'miracle baby' after a four-year fertility battle with partner Scott Dobinson.
Speaking on the CBeebies Parenting Helpline podcast, Moffatt shared that her friend Emma admitted she didn't know what to say while Jude was in the neonatal intensive care unit (NICU). The TV presenter, who is now expecting her second child, discussed with clinical psychologist Dr Frankie Harrison the best ways to support friends in similar situations.
Dr Harrison advised against phrases starting with 'at least', such as 'at least they're here now', and cautioned against saying 'he just couldn't wait to meet you', as it can imply blame. She emphasised allowing people space to express that their experience is difficult and that it's okay to talk about it whenever they want.
Dr Harrison also highlighted practical support, noting that parents in NICU often miss meals and neglect self-care. She suggested bringing food or offering to do laundry as valuable gestures.
