Marney Hands' Emotional Tribute to MAFS Star Mel Schilling's Final Makeup Session
Mel Schilling's passing earlier this year added an unexpected and deeply emotional twist to this season's Married At First Sight. Now, one of Mel's close behind-the-scenes associates has paid a moving tribute to the relationship expert, who died in March at age 54 after a long battle with cancer.
A Heartfelt Instagram Post Reveals Final Moments
Marney Hands, a makeup and hair stylist who affectionately called Mel by the nickname Moo, has shared video and photos of the final time she prepared the beloved host for an appearance under the lights. "Well, this was it, Moo, this was the last ever time I got to do your hair and makeup," she said in a lengthy and warm post on Instagram on Tuesday.
In the photo, Mel can be seen sporting a flattering curly side ponytail hairstyle, which Hands said took many hours to complete. Adding that she broke her curling iron in the process, the veteran make-up artist stated, "I am SO happy we could create a look that you loved for your farewell appearance."
Struggling with Loss and Honouring Mel's Memory
Hands added, "It was possibly my favourite look on you and God knows we’ve done hundreds. There’s something quite lovely about that, I think." Elsewhere in her moving look back at her time with Mel, Hands revealed she broke down at work after producers showed a tape package of the star.
"I’m still struggling with the fact you’ve gone; part of my brain just won’t seem to let me process it," she continued. "Every single day, there is at least one moment when I go to send you a screenshot or a meme, and I remember all over again that you’re not here."
Hands also shared a personal checklist of ways to honour Mel:
- Be glass half full
- Be confident
- Have good posture
- Look after my health
- Laugh often
She humorously noted Mel's suggestion to use dating apps, joking, "You're not winning that one." Hands concluded with, "I love you, my little pocket rocket. Thank you for being such an exquisite example of a human being, and I am so damn lucky to have met you."
Overwhelming Response from Followers and Colleagues
Hands' words met with an enthusiastic response from followers, including MAFS expert Alessandra Rampolla, who commented, "A truly showstopping final look - you created something so special for her," adding, "Mel was pure magic… we’ll all miss her more than words can say. Sending you so much love, Marney."
MAFS alum Lucinda Light called the look Hands created for Mel stunning, as did former Bachelor Australia star Brittany Hockley. One fan messaged, "I felt so sad watching the last ep of her last night!! She was so strong!!! So strong!! You created such a beautiful look."
Mel Schilling's Cancer Battle and Legacy
The Australian psychologist-turned-dating expert was diagnosed with colon cancer in 2023, and she and her family had been living in London, where she was being treated. She announced that "after a tumour the size of a lemon" was successfully removed, she had been given the all-clear.
However, in a lengthy Instagram post, she revealed that she found out her cancer had metastasised to her lungs in February 2024, and over Christmas 2025, it was discovered it had spread to her brain. Mel's Northern Irish husband, Gareth Brisbane, confirmed the news of her death, leaving behind a legacy of strength and inspiration in the entertainment industry.
