Flight attendants have issued a clear plea to passengers regarding airplane etiquette: stop touching them. Instead of physical contact, cabin crew members prefer that passengers use the call button or politely speak to them to request assistance.
Industry-Wide Concern
Veteran flight attendants Michelle Montez, Joshua Boyd, and Darion Foy discussed this issue on their Jumpseat Chronicles Podcast, noting that unwanted touching—including poking and other inappropriate contact—occurs so frequently that they would be millionaires if compensated for each instance. They emphasized that this is an industry-wide problem, not an isolated experience.
How to Respect Crew Boundaries
Some flight attendants have resorted to wearing patches or lanyards advising passengers not to touch them. Others suggest a polite verbal approach to educate passengers who engage in this behavior. The message is clear: respect personal space and use proper communication channels.
Passengers are reminded that flight attendants are there to ensure safety and comfort, and unwanted physical contact can be distressing. By using the call button or a simple verbal request, travelers can help maintain a respectful and professional environment onboard.
